Tough love or soft hate?

Stop! Take a break, sit in front of the mirror and take a good look at yourself, what do you see in your eyes? Tough love or Soft hate? If you find yourself somewhere in between, you need a wake up call. Lets look for Morpheus, now!

Agghhh! We all go from loving ourselves one day to hating the next. We all feel different everyday, some days we feel beautiful, some days we want to change it all. However, with all work and no play schedules, we mostly end up feeling nothing, nada, zilch. We need time to process what we feel, express it in some form. The easiest way to be yourself is to start dressing up for yourself. Show some tough love honey.

Dressing up for work is a boring task, if its only plain Jane kind. Think again cause its not what you have bargained for. Break the monotony, let your alter ego make some noise. Don't do fashion to look good, do it to feel good and you'll see how few wrongs could make one right.

Here is my version of a rebellious work look. Baby-pink cropped top, grey plaid skirt, black anti-fit blazer, a bow-tie on no-collar; they all tick the red boxes in your work wardrobe when separate, but, tick one big green box when put together.

You don't need someone else to pull you out of your misery, a lil cry for help needs a listener, but, you yourself should be the first one to respond to it. Don't let hate get in the equation, throw in some tough love and it all gets better, nothing lasts forever. Try some retail therapy, there is nothing that a new dress and a new pair of shoe can't cure.

Crop top, Blazer, Sunglasses : Platinum Mall, Bangkok| Skirt : Bershka | Shoes : Zara | Bag : Stella toes |